When the people who once cared for us begin to need care themselves, the decisions we face are rarely simple. One of the biggest questions for many families is whether an elderly loved one should remain at home with support or move into a care home. It’s a choice filled with love, worry and the hope that they will be safe, comfortable and valued.
This guide aims to provide families with a clear, compassionate understanding of what care homes are, the services they offer and how they can enrich the lives of elderly residents.
It’s a residential setting designed for elderly individuals who require assistance in their daily lives. Some may have medical needs that require regular monitoring while others may simply want the safety and companionship that a care home provides.In Nepal, care homes have grown in number over the past decade as families adapt to modern lifestyles and longer life expectancies. They can range from small, homely spaces to larger facilities offering specialized medical services.
While no two care homes are exactly alike, most provide a core set of services aimed at ensuring residents’ well-being:
These services are often tailored to each resident’s physical abilities, health conditions, and personal preferences.
The decision to choose a care home can come from many different situations. Some families worry about the safety of elderly loved ones living alone. Others want to ensure proper medical supervision especially if chronic illnesses are present. In some cases, busy work schedules or geographical distance make it difficult for family members to provide the level of care needed.
Care homes can address these concerns by offering:
One of the most common questions families have is what daily life actually looks like in a care home. While routines vary, most follow a balanced schedule designed to maintain both physical health and emotional well-being.
A typical day might begin with a healthy breakfast followed by light exercise or stretching. Mornings often include group activities such as games, music or crafts. Afternoons may be quieter, giving residents’ time to rest, read or talk with friends. Evenings are peaceful, sometimes with short walks or shared tea time before bedtime.
Importantly, residents are encouraged to personalize their living spaces whether that means bringing family photos, favorite bedding or personal mementos. This helps them feel a sense of belonging and familiarity.
Loneliness is a serious concern for many elderly individuals and it can impact both physical and mental health. Care homes aim to address this by creating a community atmosphere by shared meals, group celebrations for festivals and birthdays and casual daily conversations help residents feel part of a family.
In Nepal, many care homes incorporate local traditions, songs, and festivals into their activity calendars, making life familiar and comforting for residents who have grown up with these customs.
Food plays a central role in well-being, and care homes place great importance on nutritious, balanced meals. Special diets are often provided for residents with conditions such as diabetes, hypertension, or chewing difficulties. Meals are prepared fresh and served in a way that encourages social interaction often in shared dining areas where residents can enjoy both food and conversation depends on situation.
Health concerns can arise unexpectedly which is why most care homes offer 24/7 monitoring and quick access to medical help. Staff are trained in first aid, medication, administration and emergency protocols. Many homes also coordinate with local hospitals or clinics for more specialized care when needed.
Regular health check-ups are part of the routine, helping to detect any changes in health early and respond appropriately.
Care homes are not always a permanent arrangement. Many offer short-term or “respite” care for elderly individuals recovering from surgery, illness or injury. This option is also useful for families who may need temporary support due to travel, work commitments or personal health issues.
Long term stays are suitable for those who require continuous assistance and prefer the stability of a permanent home environment.
Moving a loved one to a care home doesn’t mean losing family connection. Most homes welcome frequent visits and encourage family participation in special events. For relatives living abroad, many facilities arrange video calls so families can remain connected. Maintaining this bond is important for residents’ emotional health, as the presence of familiar faces and voices provides comfort and reassurance.
Deciding on a care home requires careful thought and open discussion with all family members and most importantly with the elderly person themselves. Whenever possible, visiting a few care homes before making a choice can help families compare facilities, meet staff and observe daily routines.
Things to consider include:
Choosing a care home is not about giving up on caring for an elderly loved one, it’s about ensuring they have the best possible environment to live with dignity, safety, and joy. In the right care home, elderly residents can find new friendships, enjoy engaging activities, and receive proper medical attention and feel secure knowing help is always nearby.